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Old 01-06-2010, 08:31 PM
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I entered into an existing relationship that had existed for nearly twenty; granted, I'm only with him, because she's mono, straight, and determined to stay that way but it's still rather an intimidating prospect. I also had problems trusting, but we took it -- and still take it -- at a pace that allowed for trust to be built.

We are all childfree, so I can't speak to the more kids issue personally, but I can tell you that's something you need to work out with the people who will be raising them. If you do have children, chances are the partner who didn't want more will be part of their lives anyway, and that's not exactly fair, either.
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