Kid has beat cancer. All scans are clear!
However, he became such a problem child that R booted his ass out, made him go live with his dad. Kid is now punishing her for it, but R seems to be dealing ok.
She is finally coming back to her old self, stress levels are seriously reducing themselves by the hour it seems.. We had a couple of very long talks, that went very well... it is soooooooooooooooooooooo nice to have my best friend and lover back and talking to me...
Now, we are getting back to our old selves, and, she told me to go find a girlfriend... lol
so, I am back to say Thank You to everyone who talked to me about this, sent private messages, and was generally supportive.