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Old 03-07-2013, 03:45 AM
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From what I read, Poly is allot of different things, none really limiting as long as both primary partners agree and are happy.
'both primary partners' implies a high degree of monogamous, couple-centric, not-necessarily-poly thinking. Many folks who are poly do not have or want a 'primary' partner. If your goal is a triad, then you won't be a primary 'couple' anymore. Which is fine of course, I just recommend you call it something else.

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I appreciate advice and critisism as always.
Well, that's refreshingly different than your first post.

You may find this article interesting or helpful. I think it's the best thing I've read that explains why people take exception to the term 'unicorn hunter.'
http://davidlnoble.com/so-somebody-c...nicorn-hunter/
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