Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I wonder how common this is, I agree it is unfair. It seems some guys want to have it all i.e. a woman to "share" without giving back in the sense of having thier spouse enjoy some one of the opposite sex. I'm not poly but I wonder if this is generally deemed as ethical poly boundaries? The people in my community seem to be ok with pansexual acceptance of other partners for the most part....bit of a tangent so feel free to ignore.
Doesn't this fall under 'One Penis Policy' I didn't take the time to check out the board to see if there is already a thread on this... but I pretty much agree with your thinking here. Guess I can't 'ignore'