From my POV, I know I was an enabler of sorts. I allowed it to continue even when I felt the tension between them. It's his home as much as mine, and he should have a say as to who can be there and when. It was selfish of me, and I put his comfort second, when it should have been massively important. Within the confines of our home, Si is virtually an outsider. Our home is like my sanctuary and my comfort zone, and I know I'd be peeved if I had to deal with this. He shouldn't have ever had to feel like he wasn't at ease in his own residence. I have apologized for that.
Ry - Me. Panromantic demisexual with a history of polyamorist tendencies. Married to...
Matt (Hubby) - The once distant stranger that I complement beautifully. DH of 13 years and father of our four children.