Originally Posted by opalescent
You are fucking miserable. You've been fucking miserable the entire time you've posted here.
Let me try a different response to this.
I'm sorry for posting so many things that have been whiny and annoying, and for occasionally responding with snark.
I am grateful for this forum, and for all the replies to my various posts - those replies that have been patient and understanding as well as those that have been, um, less than patient - for helping me, sometimes in spite of myself, to achieve a small measure of clarity.
I don't know, at this point, what my own choices will be regarding polyamory, but I think I do have some basis for a more constructive approach to my wife's current engagement with poly.