Originally Posted by JessieNY
Well, my husband is highly against me bringing in another man. Which I am okay with but on the other hand - that isn't really fair if he wants to bring in another woman for us to "share" .
I wonder how common this is, I agree it is unfair. It seems some guys want to have it all i.e. a woman to "share" without giving back in the sense of having thier spouse enjoy some one of the opposite sex. I'm not poly but I wonder if this is generally deemed as ethical poly boundaries? The people in my community seem to be ok with pansexual acceptance of other partners for the most part....bit of a tangent so feel free to ignore.