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Old 03-05-2013, 07:35 PM
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Originally Posted by FatMouse View Post

Hmm... I feel like you're telling me that if he meets someone, he should just date and tell me to deal with it. And I don't feel that's right. Is that what you're saying? (if I misunderstood, my apologies)
Well, more or less, yeah. Or more accurately, that if he meets someone and chooses to date her, then your options are to deal with it or move on.

That doesn't mean you can't plead your case and ask him to take your feelings into consideration. It just means that, at the end of the day, it's entirely his choice whether or not he dates some new girl that he falls for.

It also means that if he's in that situation and you pressure him not to date her, you should expect him to feel resentment and jealousy that you're denying him something that he has freely given to you.

You don't have to feel it's right. I'm just some stranger on the internet with too many opinions.
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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