Originally Posted by FatMouse
If they genuinely love each other, if everyone's treated equally, I don't care. I'm not that posessive.
However, I don't want a lot of people involved.
Sometimes we think we're going to feel one way about something and when it actually happens we feel differently than we thought we would.
The biggest issue here is that you're trying to force your husband to feel things as you do, and you freak out when he has his own feelings instead.