Thank you for the advice, that's been my major issue but I didn't really think of stepping away from the situation, I will start trying that. I will let you know how it works for me, so thank you again.
Thank you for the mentioning of it being able to mourn my loss. Sometimes it doesn't feel like I can. (They have never said I couldn't, It's a personal feeling)
And I too, am glad that we are all working out, guess it was just one of those stages where it took more than just communication.