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Old 03-04-2013, 08:58 PM
rungsoftheladder rungsoftheladder is offline
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Maine
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Default Progress!!!

Agreed that the list is centered around fears.

I made a list like that about 5 months ago....every time I had odd/weird/negative feelings about poly topics, I referred to my list and figured out which one(s) applied. Then, when the moments passed and I realized that it the moment had no lasting impact on me, her, or our primary relationhip, I knew that fear was reduced. Some of these fears have been reduced to nothing, and I no longer fear them. Most are reduced to managable levels and I no longer fear the fear, so to speak. Facing these fears and knowing what they are have made them all diminish with each new learning experience! Kudos to you for doing the introspection needed to move forward with understanding!
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