Originally Posted by GSAS082612
my major question is, are you in a poly-triad or poly-vee. Depending on the type of relationship can explain different options and answers.
Umm... Can you maybe explain what that means? I seriously have no idea about the terms used here
We sometimes talk about this. I think that if he suddenly came across someone who he falls for (let's say a friend) as I fell for my friend and said person reciprocates their feelings... I guess it wouldn't bug me as much, because things would be more genuine, and I don't want him to feel as miserable as I was when I felt I had to choose between him and my friend.
Now it would bug me a lot if he suddenly started to look for women. That would be a different story.
I hope my post makes sense.