Welcome to our forum.
I hope you find the triad or quad situation you've been looking for. Or a V or a Z ...
... who knows what will turn up.
It sucks to have to worry about security and privacy issues, but I guess that is the price of admission for a public forum. I almost think of it as a calculated risk.
Have a look around and get a feel for what people post and stuff. It's a pretty comfortable atmosphere.
Glad you could join us,