Welcome to our forum.
I believe you'll be able to learn a lot here that will be helpful to you. Just look around at our various threads, and post any thoughts or questions you may have.
Sounds like you have a pretty awesome poly unit. Living polyamorously can be quite a challenge, but it can also be very worth it.
My best wishes go out to you, and I'm glad you could join us.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"