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Old 01-06-2010, 04:01 AM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by vampiresscammy View Post
for me personally i go with a "to each their own" kinda vibe, i'm not interested in judging others on their usage of labels or for wanting whatever that label implies, but if we're going to be kinky together, then yes its very important we both know exactly what each other is saying regardless of the labels we use
Actually I would say communication in bdsm is as important (if not more so than poly) as poly. Simply because of the various degrees of pain, pleasure, fun and heck even methods. You really have to understand and respect everyones bounderies, wants, needs and fantasies. BDSM is quite a good communication tool
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