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Old 03-02-2013, 03:04 AM
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Hi! nice to meet you.

First up does "joe" talk about "Ann" while you two are spending time together? If so it's hard to distance yourself from the past when it's still in your present. Can you ask him not to mention her? Is he aware just how hurt you REALLY are?

Your situation, I can admit, eludes me as I haven't endured it yet, pray not to even, but I would ask you if confrontation of the situation as a group might help? Addressing how you feel is soo important in poly-land, not only to you but to your partners. They aren't mind readers. Kudos to Greg for helping you work through it
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