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Old 01-05-2010, 11:52 PM
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Default You are not alone! :-)

Yes, quite a few people do. The "polymono" configuration is not uncommon in poly circles. I am the "poly" part in a polymono relationship, so am fairly familiar with the issues and understand how it can be a bit daunting.

I'm not sure if you are familiar with the writings of Franklin Veaux but I think he writes some excellent articles on polyamory in general. In this case he has one called "Polyamory for the Monogamous" and it can be found at

He lays out some very good "points to ponder" about the subject, in my opinion. Hope this helps you too!

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