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Old 03-01-2013, 08:11 AM
ManofDiscovery ManofDiscovery is offline
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Originally Posted by girlinflames View Post
I haven't quite even gotten that far, so I give you a lot of credit for putting yourself out there! I think that I might be stuck with feeling out of place in a monogamous relationship, because I feel happy with the boyfriend I'm with. However, the problem is when I meet people I grow feelings for I have to either force myself to hide those feelings, or lose that person from my life. I've twice went behind my boyfriend's back and gotten close to others, one being my (was) best friend. So, things are really tough. I almost hope this is a phase, but I highly doubt it.

What you're saying really resonates. You love being in a relationship, but it's like you have to hide a part of yourself and hope it stays dormant. You value honesty and trust, yet you find yourself in situations where you cross boundaries that you shouldn't be crossing with others..then feel guilty later.

I highly doubt this is a phase...if your bf doesn't come on board, the signs aren't great.

Dump him and hook up with me instead. I know nothing about you, how old you are, what you look like, where you live, or whether we'd get on...but otherwise the idea is perfect
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