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Old 03-01-2013, 03:28 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by Malfunktions View Post
Ha ha ha! Believe it or not OUR HEADLIGHT IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW!
- that, my friend, is TOO funny!

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So, in retrospect, breaking down and enduring the messiness of me crying and babbling was beneficial because we got to discuss our motivations to our decisions as well as our desires.

Everything is much better.

Duct tape not required.
I'm glad things are much better. Sometimes things come to a head before you recognize that there is an issue - at that point nothing to do but lance it and let it all out. Yes it's messy, but ... sometimes that's what it takes to heal and move on in your new-found knowledge.

(I like to keep the duct tape handy though...)

Jane("Also-a-fan-of-zip-ties-and-band-clamps")Q
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