Originally Posted by bennie
Takes a lot of mental and emotional heavy-lifting to keep it there.
Very well said, I agree completely. Thank you all for your perspectives. I know and believe that what she enjoys there will be just that, and enhance us, but I have trouble not literally picturing it and feeling that sting. The difference day by day is that it is a temporary sting and not a constant pit in my stomach.
But it hasn't happened yet and the anxiety about when it does is very tangible, no matter how much I KNOW it's baseless in the long run.