Ha ha ha! Believe it or not OUR HEADLIGHT IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING RIGHT NOW!
Ok, so maybe duct tape fixes what's not as important but in reference to the canoe/crack paradigm I'd rather spend the days patching it than be in the middle of the river sinking... Swimming? Not my forte
Yes, relationships deserve the time and effort! I feel bad that I never even thought that C would think he was not enough.
A few days after our "talk" and he's back to joking. "Wouldn't it be nice to be in a sandwich right now." Or "Imagine the entanglement we'd face when we woke up each morning."
So, in retrospect, breaking down and enduring the messiness of me crying and babbling was beneficial because we got to discuss our motivations to our decisions as well as our desires.
Everything is much better.
Duct tape not required.
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.