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Old 02-27-2013, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Wants2BEqual View Post
. . . last night he said he was still torn and is desperate to find a creative way to make it work so he keeps us both.
Ugh, this statement leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Is that how he put it? It sounds like he sees you and his wife as possessions to own. Probably a good idea to examine that perspective.
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