He suggested 1/2 time living w her and other half coming to US to live with me. He suggested the 3 of us have a brainstorm .
This is not where I thought this was going after we reconciled last August.
I cannot say it better then Student of Life. You are responsible for your own well being after giving it a go. You gave it a go. You have to come to terms and evaluate now. Result it THUS. What could I choose next for my next behavior?
So now you wish to choose.... what? If this is NOT where you want to be? Could choose not to be there then. In the interest of your own best healths.
It can FEEL all kinds of hard and upsetting. But your conduct? It could be real simple if you choose to keep things simple when determining your next behavior choice:
- Am I willing to try?
- Am I doing this with joyful spirit?
- Is this healthy for me to be doing? And healthy for those around me?
- Does this meet all three? (Because one could be willing, but not joyful in spirit or engaging in healthy things)
Then you know what you could do. That does not go against your well being. ALL of your well being.