Been a while friends here is an update for any interested. The wife moved out. He continued to pursue me while also going to therapy to help him thru their seperation
He decided I should live with him for 2 weeks in his country to see how it felt.
I've been here 10 days. The first nine were wonderful. But last night he said he was still torn and is desperate to find a creative way to make it work so he keeps us both. He suggested 1/2 time living w her and other half coming to US to live with me. He suggested the 3 of us have a brainstorm .
This is not where I thought this was going after we reconciled last August.