I might sound like I am being dismissive when in reality it is the opposite. The fact that my partner is paranoid about it makes me paranoid about it.
I have always been tested and have only had HPV. I was asymptomatic when I got it. I have not had sex except with my monogamous husband in 5 years and not had sex at all for a whole year.
I think my partner is being lied to or being told that I brought this to the table which is what bothers me. I know who I sleep with and I am very careful about it... But now I think I'm going to stop it altogether.
I wont ever know who they sleep with or their other partners sleep with, I can only trust what they tell me, and that is not enough.
Those of you who have followed me know that I started this because my husband wont have sex with me. If he did, I would not be doing this.
At this time: open sexless marriage.
"It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path."