I'm glad you both liked the article! I saw the other thread after I posted in this one, I was sort of surprised no one had linked it already.
The mere fact that you're open and seeking info, and that you liked the article, Malfunktions, tells me you're a pretty good egg.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)