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Old 02-26-2013, 02:17 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Pennsyl-tucky
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Thank you for responding in this thread - which I might never have seen otherwise.

You are right - nothing is lost by responding - you brought this touching thread to the forefront by being touched by it.

At the end of her last post the OP says:

I simply need to just live.
In the end, that is all any of need to do...just live.

We don't really have any other option, do we? I love how you talk about regret. I am blessed in my life that have so few (a guy I didn't sleep with, a guy that I did, a concert that I didn't attend...that about sums it up for me.).

At the end of the day, I can be comfortable with my choices (my usual state) or I can be uncomfortable (which suggests to me that I may have a task for the days ahead).

Thank you for bringing this to the forefront.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (5+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic girlfriend and BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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