Given the reportedly high numbers of polyamorous people in my state, I am beginning to think that the gatherings have gone from public to private, and they're all just doing things with their friends now. I wish the group they called poly 101 was still active, but it has been listed as DOA also.
I think this means I need to follow the good advice I have been given about seeking groups with other common interests, and hoping that somewhere within those groups I might stumble over like-minded individuals. I had hoped for the easier route of going to poly-based meetings, not only to learn, but to erase that awkward "are they/aren't they"
poly friendly. Nothing to be done for it, though.