So my family is all young (mid to late 20s) and white but economically secure? That part make me giggle. Primal and I work full time both at about $9-10 an hour. Lamian is unemployed. Woodsmith is in school full time and doesn't even have time this semester for a part time job. That's house 1. House two: Peaseblossum makes under 20K a year and Darkeyes I think is the only one who makes decent money ($14 an hour but some weeks has 60 hours others is lucky to get 10).
However, thankfully in St. Louis there's a lot of things that are either cheap or free for being involved both in the polyamory and kink communities.
Woodsmith: My husband
Merry: Tig's wife/slave
NT: Merry's boyfriend/owner
Elle: NT and Merry girlfriend
Umbra: Elle's Dom
Pet: Umbra's slave/wife, Elle girlfriend
Domo: Pet's submissive