Could determine what you want from each (behavior) first. Then could print that out and give it to her/him. Then say something like...
- I feel like this. (printed thing).
- I would like more of this (behaviors.)
- Could you each be willing to do that so I can feel less left out?
What ARE the behaviors you would want from each? More texting from her again? When you are in the room in trio, to behave in trio fashion when you share watching a movie or something? And not be doing bedroom eyes at each other? Cuz they could take that to the bedroom?
Could you list?