The point about worrying about an overdependance on my part is posible but I have never been a dependant person. She is the first person ever that I have let this close in to my life. Every time I see her my heart dose jump in happyness and I think it is love.
As for patience and careing on my part it took me nearly 2 days of solid talking to convince her that I was not going to leave over this. So I think I have ample amounts of compassion, patience and understanding. On one occasion she even thanked me for staying with her through "This confusing time".
From my talk with GW yestarday it seems like we are both trying to figure a way to let her down gently. He has expressed his misgivings about this whole venture. However another potential problem is that he dose not seem to understand the magnitude of her feelings for him.