Complicated intro of a Virginia man...
Virginia man (Hampton Roads to be exact), currently living with my girlfriend of 6 years. I'm new to this site and just looking to make some new friends, talk about some experiences and maybe add more to become the family we both desire.
I'm simple by nature but complicated by circumstance. I'm obviously poly, pansexual in every sense of the word and don't have a preference to either gender (or those genderqueer folks), and on top of everything I am transgender, meaning I was born female and have transitioned to male. We also happened to be an interracial couple- I'm black/mixed and she is Latina/white.
I know this isn't the section for dating, and that's not why I'm posting this, but we are in a bit of a sticky situation. We would really like to find another for our relationship (or more than one) but would like to do so and avoid the term Unicorn Hunters. Everyone seems to pick on these couples because a lot of them seem to be the type where the male is straight and wants to add a bi female in the hopes of sexual interaction and threesomes. That isn't us, in fact, it is my girlfriend that is looking to add a female, not myself. I would be content with anyone if we clicked, even males.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how we can resolve this or how I can at least explain to her why searching for such a person might be a bad idea??