The author of the article came out of a long term mono-poly relationship that didn't work out. There may be some slant in terms of what mono people are like and what they think. Not all mono people think the same. They have their own mono, just as poly people have their own poly. I know some poly people that are just fine with poly and simply don't want it for themselves... yet are fine with their partners being poly and understand the concepts just fine. Its important to ask questions and find out what a persons monogamy means to them. It could mean surprising discoveries!
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