Hello and welcome!
I'm glad you have found this forum - read and enjoy! Regarding the "poly lifestyle": you will find, even just reading here, that there are many, many ways of "doing poly" (like, practically as many ways as there are people doing it
) and I think it helps to keep yourself open to possibilities.
PS. If you are still in the 12 hour edit window - you may want to remove your email address from your post - people on the site can email you through your profile but an email address in a public post can be harvested by internet spambots and you are likely to have a giant influx of spam in your inbox.