It isn't you, your timing, your wording, or your style of delivering your message. The simple fact of the matter is that Girlfriend is Just Not That Into You, as the kids say these days. She's irritable toward you because you exist. I'm sorry if you wanted something out of this that you aren't getting. Look at the situation as it is and move forward from there. You won't get the results you are seeking just by following the proper-poly steps; it doesn't work that way. You can do everything by the book and still not get someone else to feel the feeling if they aren't feeling it.
tl;dr. Girlfriend is into Husband. When OP gets out of work, sexy-time is over and Girlfriend is tired and bitchy.
Last edited by BoringGuy; 02-23-2013 at 03:01 PM.