You make some very good points. And I very much appreciate your taking the time, as well. I've asked C and we discussed the likely hood that we'll get our perfect end. Population, availability, experience, family and friends, these are all possible downfalls for us but with a little perseverance and such, you never know. If, by chance, we are successful and it may take many trials and tribulations, then great(!) but should the road he bumpy then it's the learning curve right?
It's just me, my ramblings and the elevator music in my head.
Me: bi, reformed wild-child turned mom and house maid LOL
Crux: straight/hypersexual, possibly mono?
BC: our son, 5 years
CM: second son 9 months.
Mouse: girlfriend! Status new, feelings not so much.