Glad to hear we haven't been too off-putting.
May I, then, ask the question that, as I mentioned above, is what usually comes to mind for me?
What would you do if the person you're seeking, after some time dating, ends up only interested in one of you?
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.