Glad to hear we haven't been too off-putting.
May I, then, ask the question that, as I mentioned above, is what usually comes to mind for me?
What would you do if the person you're seeking, after some time dating, ends up only interested in one of you?
The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.