Reading your story I had a couple thoughts ....using nre as excuse for disrpectful behavior and hoping you'll have a marriage after it passes is delusional....relationships can be irreparably damaged. My second thought has anyone thought that the NRE is the drug she is using to treat herself?
This looks like many issues and problems layered one on top of the other....like peeling an onion. NRE is not the core.
Loving radiance wrote a very good thread on "NRE as an excuse" or not an excuse. Maybe have her read that.
A therapist once told me that sexual intimacy is often the glue that hold marriages together ....or put another way its often an indictor of a major disconnect. Is she motivated at all to fix that with you ?
Last edited by dingedheart; 02-22-2013 at 03:33 PM.