Is your husband aware of the forum and or your involvement here?
Why not invite him to read this thread?
Also there are several threads written about this reaction of not wanting to sexual with a spouse after the intro of a new partner ....not sure how you'd find them but there out there....and you're not alone.
I would warn against doing things out of obligation....or as some here have suggest fake it til you make it. Unless you exceptional at faking it ....it could create its own negative spiral.
Last edited by dingedheart; 02-22-2013 at 02:49 PM.