In my opinion, nobody gets to manage or dictate terms of a relationship they are not in. Period. I would not tolerate that at all. If a person I was involved with made such ridiculous demands, it would be over. End of discussion.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein