Originally Posted by hellokitty
I don't know how long she expects this abstinence to last and what she is going to work on inside herself to be comfortable w this during that time but what if it's not "all better" afterwards?
Opinions? I don't know how to proceed. Honestly this just makes me want to be alone cuz I feel no matter what I do nothing will be good enough for her.
Well you could ask her that first one, but it sounds like your answer to her request is "No" so I would just say no. If she does not take it well, then well personally, I'd make a decision to stop seeing her, as that behavior doesn't make much sense at all to me, and is counter to who and what you seem to have explained you are/want/need out of your relationships.