Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
Just a curiosity question (now that I'm getting caught up on the boards again)
I have no involvement in any get togethers (BDSM, Swinger, poly etc).
But I am CLEARLY in a long term poly dynamic.
I also have a clear interest in BDSM, but not so much in the public gatherings.
Anyone on here participate in D/s dynamics that don't playout only in a "scene"?
I'm in the same situation. I lurk along with a few of the BDSM groups in my area on FetLife, most of them host munches and play parties... and it often feels like the discussion online is often about play party activities, so I know I feel intimidated to check out a munch because I'm not interested in doing any play that isn't totally private.