I just wonder why looking for a third is considered such a blasphemy? Why are people so quick to accuse someone of being that which seems to be distasteful? Is being successful in our relations a good thing? Can the world not be happy because we want to open up to another person? I don't understand why a seemingly simple request is considered bad. We want to love another, that is the direct definition of polyamory , is it not? The ability to love more than one person?
So frustrating sometimes.