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Old 02-21-2013, 03:51 AM
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Am I just being a controlling bitch, as she implied?
I think you answered your own question:
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I probably would have encouraged him to end the relationship because she's not the kind of person I want involved in our lives.
which is a totally fair point of view, imo, but
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he ended the relationship completely.
You did not control his decision or actions. You did not even get to a place where you felt like you needed to weigh-in on his decision. He did it himself, without any encouragement, pressure, or persuading from you, and certainly nothing like a veto.

So, no, not a controlling bitch.
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