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Old 02-20-2013, 06:19 PM
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I would want to know too, except it simply is not her place to tell him. If the affair continues that is because of her husband, this other woman owes her no alliance, her husband does, if he has an affair with that woman again he clearly can't be trusted.
If you think telling the husband of this woman would control the situation well, that is awfully naive and is more than likely just a vindictive action to 'get back' at this other woman. Fact is, no one knows what is going on in this other relationship and is therefore not her business, her husband is her business, she should concentrate on that and probably steer clear of non monogamy.
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