Thread: poly and affair
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Natja View Post
It is not her place to notify the husband of this other woman though. That is crossing a line and interfering with a relationship that really doesn't have anything to do with her.
I'm afraid we're going to have a philosophical difference here. Telling the husband helps ensure the affair doesn't re-occur, because affairs dwell in secrecy and darkness, and this helps bring it out into the harsh light of day. If I were the husband, I'd want to know. Plus, it's Hunny's partner and his "girlfriend" that did the interfering, it would just be Hunny revealing the truth.
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