If one of us were not interested, we would communicate about the other's interest and find out if there could be a middle ground. We have made him aware of our ground rules and how we decide things together since we first met him. We would not want him to be blindsided later. We both have Veto power so if one of us really couldn't stand him, he would get vetoed into friendship.
Open communication about all things seems to work best for us in all areas so we are open with the people we date as well.
I am feeling quit proud of myself this morning.. I feel as though I have jumped a huge social hurdle LOL