Your post made me feel better. I appreciate your insight. Sometimes its better for someone to help you look in then to just look out.
I felt hurt more than anything, not lied to.
Thanks to you I have more understanding. I (we) are all new to this and I dont fully understand how all of it will work out in the end.
Would you be able to maybe PM about your relationship and how it started and how you do things like family functions and how you came out to your family and friends. Maybe how your family life works.
A another fear that my husband has is that people are going to think of him as a b***h for "sharing" his wife with someone else but he does this regardless when we have 3somes. its just now going into a relationship form.