I guess I don't quite remember what the exact wording was. And even looking back thru our emails, there was not an exact wording, but maybe just a verbal agreement? But the other male is not a conversationalist. He keeps everything bottled up and leaves it to the three of us to say things. But in a way, I'm kinda like him, but not to that extreme. I know we all have a lot of work to do to keep this thing going and possibly turning things around. But it is hard when he is "controlling" everything and the 3 of us are walking on eggshells around him. And making things work out should not be this hard!