Just a curiosity question (now that I'm getting caught up on the boards again)
I have no involvement in any get togethers (BDSM, Swinger, poly etc).
But I am CLEARLY in a long term poly dynamic.
I also have a clear interest in BDSM, but not so much in the public gatherings.
Anyone on here participate in D/s dynamics that don't playout only in a "scene"?